Suddenly Single?   Single Again?

Single Still?

Forty percent of our adult population is single.  Many of these people are single by choice and love it.  And there’s certainly nothing wrong with being single…unless you don’t want to be.  I was single for 17 years after divorcing my first husband.  And once the pain of the first year had passed, I loved being single…most of the time.  But when I got tired of making one cup of coffee in the morning, and being the third wheel with my coupled friends, I was ready for someone special with whom to share my life. That’s when I began having problems with being single. I experienced loneliness, frustration, feeling I wasn’t loveable, fear of dying alone, and a plethora of other negative emotions.

There are often many emotional issues that arise when you find yourself suddenly single, especially if it’s not by choice.  Whether someone has broken your heart, you’ve gone through a painful divorce, or lost your partner to death, you will undoubtedly experience many painful or unpleasant emotions.  Here are just some of the issues that are common:                    

• A sense of loss, betrayal, or guilt
• Loneliness
• Anger
• Sadness
• Anxiety or uncertainty about being “out there” again
• Fear that you may never love or be loved again
• Frustration of not finding “the right” person
•   A feeling of worthlessness
•   Self-doubt
• A sense of hopelessness

Knowing that any or all of these sensations are common, does nothing to alleviate them.  When you are hurting, having friends tell you that “time heals all wounds” isn’t much comfort either.  In those moments when you are missing your loved one, or feeling alone, you need something that can make you fell better RIGHT NOW.  Yet the normal advice from friends is that as time passes, so will the pain, sadness, or anger.  There are two things wrong with that belief, however:  For one, it’s not always true and, secondly, who wants to suffer for months or years, hoping to feel eventually better?

Whether you want to burst through your negative emotions now, start feeling better about yourself now, or just get on with your life now, we know we can help. Just some of the benefits you can expect to experience with our services for relationships include:

• Increased self-esteem
• Improved confidence with the opposite sex
• Dumping "baggage" from previous relationships
• Tools to help you completely get over anger or hurt from past relationships 
• Insight to keep you from making the same relationships mistakes again and again
• Information, tools and techniques to help you find your ideal life partner

If you haven't already read about EFT elsewhere on this site, then take a few minutes to do so now. EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is a powerful method to help you dispel the negative emotions you may have about being single, get over past relationship pain, and gain self-confidence; it can be a valuable tool to help you find your ideal life partner.  Also check out our EFT simplified page.

If you are really ready to move on with your life, then give us a call and let’s see which one of our programs is right for you. 

Lindsay Kenny

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